... As long as you and your boyfriend can keep things as amicable as possible I think things should work out alright. Sexually things are fantastic. I was never insecure in my past few relationships. WD. It's even getting to the point where I can't joke with him about something if it has to do with him. i told it to him. I love him so much I want it to be that I’m insecure and crazy.. soon I’ll leave. but still i don't think he is the one. He knows I'm unhappy but I doubt he knows how much. Everything seemed perfect. 'this' as in, i feel trapped, like i'm under a microscope. He said that he loves me, he is in love with me but that he needs a few days to figure things out. Well if someone is this nasty to you when they “fall out of love” then they never loved you and they never were in love with you in the first place. I hate having sex with my husband because I do not get turned on like I … but he insist to continue our relationship. But the “I love you but I’m not in love with you” pronouncement is almost always the closing bell. My boyfriend was my … But when he jokes about me he thinks it's fine. He's always grabbing at me, which I know is just him expressing affection, but I find really irritating, especially when I'm in the middle of a chore. So i've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and i love him soooo much . This is what happening to me, the same feeling. You will have some decision making to do after this conversation, which can be anxiety-provoking, but it's not something that you can keep a secret. Keeping things like this for now doesn’t mean the relationship is going nowhere. In fact, I’m almost positive he’s going to propose to me near my birthday, because I know that he’s going to want to start having kids and really settling down soon. ... “I chose him, so if I’m not happy, it’s my fault”). 16. After dating for a while, especially when you intensely meet your boyfriend everyday, you can’t help but feel bored. we're always fighting to … Big fights. ... "My boyfriend is awesome, but I'm not feeling that spark. That's just one example but when I try to tell him how I feel he gets so mad about that to. i feel controlled. I’m happy with the way things are. Your boyfriend may not be the most demonstrative or the most vocal about his feelings, but that does not mean you should not express how you feel about him. I also wonder if our problems have anything to do with my sexuality, which if I’m being completely honest, I have been questioning. He gets mad at me for just about everything. Not wanting to hold hands in public. Making you happy is not his number one priority because you are not his number one girl anymore. ‘I love my partner, but I’m not in love anymore’ As long as there’s mutual respect, the ‘love’ remains, but the lust and passion may have subsided Comments I guess I’m the odd ball out, but I’m perfectly happy with the way we are now. For now, he doesnt want to break up. We moved to a new city to have a fresh start, cause last year he broke up with me for 3 months and we wanted to start over new. I am falling out of love with my boyfriend but even though I am not in love with him anymore doesn’t mean I don’t love him. However, it happens to every couple and all you need is space for your personal life and you’ll miss him and you’ll fall in love again with him. We communicated well if there ever was an issue. Like i cant even explain how much i love him but, everyday we fight over little things. Funny thing about love… it’s unlikely that you love your boyfriend. Don’t get me wrong, I love him, and I love our life together. Love grows stronger the more you know someone, and if you’re in love, you’ll know it. If you love them and want to work things out and get back to a happy relationship, you can express your needs to your boyfriend or try to work toward a healthy relationship. Reply; 1.1.1. rana. i'm just 20 y/o and he's 27. im turning 21 this march. "Mainly because I’m always tired and the last thing I want to do is get naked, show my husband my post-pregnancy body, and have sex. 15. I really love my boyfriend, but i'm not happy anymore. I have been abused, lied too, talked down to, manipulated, cheated on and I’m just not happy anymore.. And haven’t been for awhile. I still love him but I am not in love anymore. We were and essentially are best friends as well as two people in love. If I don't want to have sex and passion with a person anymore, I think it shows my lack of interest This is my story. Doesn’t try to make you happy. My Boyfriend Is In Love With Me, But I’m Not Sure I’m In Love With Him. The sex is not good, as he has had some, ahem, performance issues lately and so it doesn't last very long. And it’s not that I don’t care about him, because he’s a wonderful person and I’m lucky to have him in my life — in many ways, I don’t think I … He said that he hasn't been in a long time, and that he feels that he doesnt know if he can handel the responsibilities that come along with being in a relationship. In my teens, I began identifying as a bisexual, but my love for (and of) women has only increased with age. We’d speak everyday and got on so well. Every time we say we'll try and change but its not getting anywhere. Then, however, a friend who supported me throughout my entire process apparently came to love and respect my transformation as well. I love him and I feel I'll regret ending it, but I'm not happy anymore :(reply #22. He is my first serious boyfriend, and the one i lost my virginity to. Page last reviewed and updated by Dr Elaine Ryan on 8 January 2021 The following article is an answer to a question when a person was unsure whether or not their current difficulty was as a result of a recurring obsession or a problem with their relationship. Signs You’re Not In Love Anymore, As Told By People Who Know What It Feels Like. My boyfriend says that he is not happy anymore. Telling someone you love them is the most effective way to make them feel happy, secure, and loved! I felt so in love and I felt like I was falling more and more in love with him everyday. I was madly in love with my boyfriend of six months. My boyfriend is suddenly making me feel like I’m not wanted by him. I am only 22 years old and just recently had my son (almost 2 months old) with a man that I’m not in love with anymore. You didn’t even ask about moving in together until your friends and parents started making a big deal of it. 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